Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Stepping into Abundant Living.L5.SANITY & TRUST



STEPPING INTO ABUNDANT LIVING - “SANITY” AND TRUST


Matthew 5:4 (NIV)
 4Blessed are those who mourn,
      for they will be comforted. 
GNB – Happy are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted. 

This “mourning” must not be taken loosely for that feeling which is wrung from men under pressure of the ills of life, nor yet strictly for sorrow on account of committed sins. Evidently it is that entire feeling which the sense of our spiritual poverty begets; and so the second beatitude is but the complement of the first. The one is the intellectual, the other the emotional aspect of the same thing. It is poverty of spirit that says, “I am undone”; and it is the mourning which this causes that makes it break forth in the form of a lamentation—“Woe is me! for I am undone.”

Our attitude toward our sins (vv. 4–6). We mourn/ lament over sin and despise it. We see sin the way God sees it and seek to treat it the way God does. Those who cover sin or defend sin certainly have the wrong attitude. We should not only mourn over our sins, but we should also meekly submit to God (see Luke 18:9–14; Phil. 3:1–14). [1]
They that mourn (πενθοντες). Signifying grief manifested; too deep for concealment. Hence it is often joined with κλαίειν, to weep audibly (Mark 16:10; James 4:9).[2]
Sorrow should make us look for the heart and hand of God and so find the comfort latent in the grief.

Principle    come to believe that God exists, that I matter to Him, and that He has the power to help me overcome the lack of stability / unmanageability/ insanity in my life.

There are 4 parts to this principle that we need to apply to our life circumstances:  Coming to believe….
1.    God exists, not only that but…..
2.    I matter to Him
3.    He has the power to restore me to sanity & stability…and….
4.    He will, if I let Him…

Let’s start by defining ‘insanity’ ….
“Anything I do or think that is destructive to me or to my relationships with other people or with God is a kind of insanity, especially when I keep doing it month after month, year after year” ~J. Keith Miller, A Hunger for Healing

Sanity is defined as “soundness of mind”. What would it be like to have ‘soundness of mind’?  What are the things we do that do not reflect soundness of mind or insanity?
Some of us use mood/ mind altering substances (alcohol, nicotine, drugs, inappropriately used prescription meds, porn, even food, etc) or perhaps we use controlling behaviors (manipulation, threats, avoidance). If we do, the outcome is always predictable: more chaos

Would you put money in a bank that advertised, “your money is as safe with us as a wave tossed back and forth”?  Or.. would you be more comfortable with a bank whose slogan read:  “anchor yourself to our bank, we have your interest at heart”? The Christian concept of trust is not merely a wishful attitude, but a confident expectation.    Waves/ storms of life arise and threaten us.   But as the anchor is cast through the waters into a dark and unseen place and keeps the vessel from being overwhelmed, so must our trust be focused on the invisible God. 

We learned last week that Hope draws its power from a deep trust in God!
      
Hope:  “to desire something with confidence of fulfillment.  Positive expectation..

Sounds a lot like faith & trust doesn’t it?  As we consider God restoring us.. and ‘coming to believe’… some things are easy to believe. It is easy for many of us to believe that God will punish us, or maybe that He is displeased with us or He even dislikes us. What is more difficult is to believe that God is willing, available and longs to restore us. He loves us. He is powerful but we somehow fear He will use His power to hurt us or punish us rather than help us. These distortions make it difficult to trust and accept His help. So… in this part of our journey we must face those beliefs and begin the process of learning that God is ‘for us’ and not against us. He is who He says He is in the Word.


TRUST


As part of the act of faith by which a person establishes a saving relationship with Jesus Christ, trust is placed in the ability of Jesus Christ to restore the broken relationship between God and sinful man.  Once Christ has been received as Lord and Savior, the believer begins to develop the confidence and trust in God to fulfill all the promises which Scripture makes to the maturing Christian.

Why can we trust Him?

1. We can trust God because He always tells the truth...

“He has given us both his promise and his oath, two things we can completely count on, for it is impossible for God to tell a lie.  Now all those who flee to him to save them can take new courage when they hear such assurances from God; now they can know without doubt that he will give them the salvation he has promised them.” Hebrews 6:18 TLB

“God will continue to be true even when every person is false.”  Romans 3:4 NCV



2. We can trust God because He loves us...

“We know how much God loves us because we have felt his love and because we believe him when he tells us that he loves us dearly.  God is love, and anyone who lives in love is living with God and God is living in him.  And as we live with Christ, our love grows more perfect and complete, so we will not be ashamed and embarrassed at the day of judgment, but can face him with confidence and joy because he loves us and we love him too.  We need have no fear of someone who loves us perfectly; his perfect love for us eliminates all dread of what he might do to us.  If we are afraid, it is for fear of what he might do to us and shows that we are not fully convinced that he really loves us.  So you see, our love for him comes as a result of his loving us first.”  1 John 4:16-19 TLB

“Many sorrows come to the wicked, but abiding love surrounds those who trust in the Lord.”  Psalm 32:10 TLB

3. We can trust God because He is in control...
“May the God of peace himself make you entirely pure and devoted to God; and may your spirit and soul and body be kept strong and blameless until that day when our Lord Jesus Christ comes back again.  God, who called you to become his child, will do all this for you, just as he promised.”  1 Thessalonians 5:23-24 TLB

“We know that in everything God works for the good of those who love him.  They are the people he called, because that was his plan.”  Romans 8:28 NCV

“For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.”  Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

4. We can trust God because He will help us in times of trouble...
“In everything you do, put God first, and he will direct you and crown your efforts with success.  Don’t be conceited, sure of your own wisdom.  Instead, trust and reverence the Lord, and turn your back on evil; when you do that, then you will be given renewed health and vitality.”  Proverbs 3:5-6 TLB

“But remember this - - the wrong desires that come into your life aren’t anything new and different.  Many others have faced exactly the same problems before you.  And no temptation is irresistible.  You can trust God to keep the temptation from becoming so strong that you can’t stand up against it, for he has promised this and will do what he says.  He will show you how to escape temptation’s power so that you can bear up patiently against it.”  1 Corinthians 10:13 TLB


WE can trust that God has the power to help us. We learned that in our lesson a couple of weeks ago. However… we must ‘come to believe’ it for ourselves personally. Just like the prodigal son (see Luke 15:11-32), we have to have enough faith to begin the journey home – home to the love, compassion and help of our Father. We don’t need some sophisticated theology or years of Bible training to ‘come to believe’, we simply trust with what little we have and begin the walk – the step at a time trusting in a power greater than ourselves and believing we WILL be healed, changed, restored.

God restores…. Restores and brings freedom!

Psalm 107:13-16

New International Version (NIV)
13 Then they cried to the Lord in their trouble,
    and he saved them(A) from their distress.
14 He brought them out of darkness,(B) the utter darkness,(C)
    and broke away their chains.(D)
15 Let them give thanks(E) to the Lord for his unfailing love(F)
    and his wonderful deeds(G) for mankind,
16 for he breaks down gates of bronze
    and cuts through bars of iron.




STEPPING INTO ABUNDANT LIVING - “SANITY” & TRUST

GROUP WORK

1.   Is mourning a reality for you right now in your life (mourning/ lamenting over sin/ insanity in your life)?  If not, do you remember a time when it was – what / how did God bring comfort to you?
2.   There are 4 parts to this principle – which part do you find you have the most difficulty with?
§        God exists
§        I matter to Him
§        He has the power to restore me to sanity & stability
§        He will, if I let Him
3.   How’s your trust level in God? What area of your life are you finding it most difficult to trust Him in?
4.   What steps will you take this week to develop trust or step out in trust/ faith?



[1]Wiersbe, Warren W.: The Bible Exposition Commentary. Wheaton, Ill. : Victor Books, 1996, c1989, S. Mt 5:1
[2]Vincent, Marvin Richardson: Word Studies in the New Testament. Bellingham, WA : Logos Research Systems, Inc., 2002, S. 1:36

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