Tuesday, March 5, 2013

Abundant Living. L6. Turn with Robbie Sedgeman




Turn to Christ


At this step in our journey toward abundant living, it’s time to take a stand.  It’s time to choose God’s way or your own way.  Thousands of years ago, a man named Joshua lead the Israelites in their many battles to conquer the land of Canaan, which is current day Israel.  God declared that the land belonged to the Jewish people and he instructed them to go into the land and dwell there. 

If I had lived in those times and heard God’s promise to give me the land, I would have expected to walk into the land, build my house and start my life.  I never would have anticipated the land to be inhabited – let alone that God expected ME to drive the inhabitants out of the land before I could start living there!  But that is what happened.  They had to fight to get the land that was rightfully theirs. 

Although God led them in that fight, he did not do it for them.  I wonder at times why God chose to give the land to Israel in this manner.  Why not clear out the inhabitants for them?  He could have done that, but he chose not to do so.

God takes us on a similar journey.  He continues his ways, which definitely aren’t my ways (Isaiah 55:8-9), and requires us to take an active role in acquiring abundant life.  We have a choice, like the Israelites, to do nothing and stay outside of the promise land or to cooperate with God and face our foes.

This is a crucial turning point for many.   We do not face fleshly foes like the Israelites did, but we face the foes of character defects, destructive habits and past hurts.  They must be conquered and driven out of our lives for us to enjoy the plentiful land of abundant living.   Today we must make a choice that will guide the path for the rest of our lives.  We must consciously choose to commit all our life and will to Christ’s care and control.  This week we will examine our hearts to ensure we have made that commitment.


Do you really want to change?
My brother died of alcoholism at the age of 53.  He was in and out of rehab for decades.  During one of his periods of sobriety, when he appeared to be sincerely seeking change, he told me that his past visits to rehab were initiated only to get well enough to drink again.  He would get to the point of being unable to control his drinking and all areas of his life would spin out of control.  So he would enter rehab to sober up and get a measure of control on his drinking....so that he could regain a somewhat normal life, which enabled him to drink again.

He had no intention of changing his ways.  He wanted to continue to deal with life and his pain as he saw fit.  He never turned toward a different way.  He simply used the principles associated with change to enable him to continue in his destructive habits. 

What about you?  Are you ready for real change or are you looking for a quick fix to make yourself feel better so you can continue on your way?  God doesn’t want us going through the motions of change.  He is interested in real change, which requires turning from our ways and following his ways.  Romans 12:1 say “Therefore, I urge you brothers, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God – this is your spiritual act of worship.”  Going to rehab, joining help groups, reading recovery books and even journaling (such an important part of my healing journey) is not what God is looking for…and it is not what will change you.  All those things are good and will greatly assist you in healing, but the true healing will come step-by-step as you relinquish your ways and start following God’s ways.

Have you repented of the things you have done that contributed to where you are today?  Perhaps you have developed destructive habits or thought patterns.  Are you ready to give them up?  Repentance is to agree with God, turn from what you have done and start doing things God’s way.   Romans 12 continues with verse 2:  “Don’t let the world squeeze you into its own mold, but let God remake you so that your whole attitude of mind is changed.”  We are often eager to fit into the world’s mold.  Perhaps it is all you have known until now.  Perhaps you can’t imagine what a different life would look like and it scares you.  But it is the world’s ways that got us in bondage in the first place.  The question is whether you are ready to quit dealing with life as the world does and turn to God’s ways.

Doing life God’s way
Doing life God’s way leads to fullness of life.   Matthew 5:5 says it this way:   “Happy are the meek, for they will inherit the earth.”  Those who are meek – those who choose to follow God’s way of life - will be happy because they attain abundant life and true joy.  That’s a wonderful promise and offers great hope, but that verse is not very popular because it is often misunderstood.  That misunderstanding comes from one word:  meek.

What does it mean to be meek?  Society today associates meekness with weakness.   What do you envision when you hear the word meek?  If you are like most people, you envision a ‘mousy’ looking person who does not pay attention to their appearance, relies on other people to direct them, is not confident and will not stand up for their ideas.  They most likely do not have much of a personality at all – they laugh at what others laugh at, will never venture a joke of their own and they strive to blend in with the wallpaper.  That is not someone that people desire to be around – and it is not the type of person Jesus made us to be!

I have often heard meekness explained as a wild horse that has been tamed and now follows its master’s command.  The horse retains it passion and fire and beauty but willingly obeys its master.  God made us in his image – in the image of the lion of the tribe of Judah (Genesis 49:9).  He commands us to be courageous and bold in proclaiming His truth to this world.  Someone fitting society’s image of meekness could not do those things.  God’s meekness means to lay down our ways – our destructive habits – for his ways.  When we do that we will actively change our lives.  We will change our thinking, our habits and our actions.  Perhaps we will start working out, eating healthier, reading our bibles, keeping a journal and helping others.  God calls us to action.  Your journey to abundant living will be full of activity and the excitement of change!


Expect to Persevere
The journey will most likely be longer than you’d like and difficult at times.  If you do not determine now to persevere through whatever lies ahead, chances are high that you will quit at the first difficulty.  We are creatures of habit and change is often difficult.  Living and responding to life differently feels odd at first and perhaps a little scary.  It’s new and un-chartered territory.  It takes courage because we are stepping out in faith without yet seeing the benefits.  It takes trust.  It is difficult to step into the unknown.  God knows that, so what he declared to Joshua who was leading the Israelites into the promise land also applies to us today:  “Be strong and courageous.  Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”  Joshua 1:9

Living in desperation is the perhaps the best place to be at this point in your journey – desperate for healing, for change and for God.  It is that desperation that will keep you looking up to the One who will be by your side as you fight your way to the abundant life he has waiting for you.  If you are complacent or simply want just enough healing to continue your ways, you will not have the fortitude to continue onward, no matter how much better your life becomes.

 Ponder the desperation revealed in Psalm 142.  Are you that hungry for God’s help?

Psalm 142
 I cry aloud to the Lord;
    I lift up my voice to the Lord for mercy.
 I pour out before him my complaint;
    before him I tell my trouble.


 When my spirit grows faint within me,
    it is you who know my way.
In the path where I walk
    people have hidden a snare for me.
 Look and see, there is no one at my right hand;
    no one is concerned for me.
I have no refuge;
    no one cares for my life.


 I cry to you, Lord;
    I say, “You are my refuge,
    my portion in the land of the living.”


 Listen to my cry,
    for I am in desperate need;
rescue me from those who pursue me,
    for they are too strong for me.
 Set me free from my prison,
    that I may praise your name.
Then the righteous will gather about me
    because of your goodness to me.





Group Work


1.   Are you ready for true change in your life or are you looking for a bandage-fix that will enable to keep doing what you want to do?  In other words - are you truly repentant?
2.   Discuss the concept of meekness.  Have you learned anything new today about meekness and what it means to lay down your will for Christ’s will?
3.   What does offering yourself as a living sacrifice mean to you?
4.   What do you envision your healing path to look like and how do you feel about the possibility of difficult times ahead?  Are you committed to persevering?

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